Exclusive Matchmaking & Dating for Professionals in San Jose

Dating in San Jose, CA can be difficult when you’re balancing a professional career with a social life and your own personal goals. We understand that finding the time to meet the right people can take its toll. This is where Maclynn can help, with bespoke, psychology-led matchmaking that uncovers unique opportunities for authentic connections.

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Exploring the Dating Scene in San Jose

Events, nightlife, and gourmet restaurants—the dating scene in San Jose is explosive. You might not be short of date ideas, but meeting the right caliber of date is another question. For a tech-first population, online dating and apps seem like the way forward but all too often deliver only surface-level connections destined to fizzle after only a few dates.

With a demanding professional and social life keeping you busy, the San Jose dating scene can lead to burnout. Making time to swipe right, connect, and meet people is wishful thinking, especially if dates tend to cost you time and money with little success. The potential is there—San Jose once ranked first in the Bay Area for singles seeking long-term relationships—but maximising that potential is key.

A Results-Proven Approach to Dating in San Jose

Maclynn is your answer to finding the exceptional amongst San Jose’s vibrant dating scene. Our California-based matchmakers provide curated, entirely bespoke dating services for accomplished men and women, led by psychological principles and matchmaking expertise. We have a strong focus in San Francisco and Los Angeles but successfully work with singles across the globe, including the Bay Area.

For successful professionals in San Jose, we offer 6-12 month private matchmaking memberships. Together with your dedicated matchmaker, you’ll create an in-depth dating profile and receive supportive date coaching alongside personalized introductions to intelligent, attractive and—most importantly—highly compatible singles.

How Do Our Dating Services for San Jose Professionals Work?

Our experienced matchmakers make dating in San Jose the experience it should be—exciting, fascinating, and ultimately, successful. The 6–12 month process for exceptional San Jose singletons begins with a detailed profiling session where your assigned matchmaker will discover exactly what makes you tick. This can be carried out in person or over a video call.

With a psychology-led, 5-step matchmaking methodology—developed by our founder, dating expert Rachel MacLynn—your matchmaker will explore your core values, beliefs, and relationship goals, going beyond the surface-level profiling process on dating apps. With a deep understanding of your character and lifestyle, your matchmaker will search our global dating network of over 20,000 high-caliber singles to find compatible matches who reflect your professional ambition and seek a committed relationship in San Jose.

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What Makes Maclynn's Matchmaking Different?

Psychology-Led Approach

Our psychology-led approach to matchmaking offers several advantages over traditional methods.

  • Comprehensive Assessment
  • Informed Selection Process
  • Understanding Relationship Dynamics
  • Tailored Recommendations
  • Greater Emotional Intelligence
  • Psychology-based Feedback and Coaching

By leveraging psychological principles, we delve deeper into the core aspects of compatibility, resulting in more effective and meaningful matches.

Unrivaled Network

Our unrivaled network offers numerous benefits that set us apart from other matchmaking services

  • Network of High-Quality Individuals
  • Diverse Range of Backgrounds and Interests
  • Shared Values and Aspirations
  • Access to Exclusive Opportunities
  • Increased Compatibility
  • Enhanced Matchmaking Opportunities

We offer clients an unparalleled opportunity to meet and connect with individuals who embody excellence and share similar life goals.

Meet the Founder

Rachel Vida MacLynn is the founder of Maclynn. After five years in psychology, a serendipitous moment in 2006 led her to switch careers, realising her true calling lay in matchmaking

Guided by her father's life stories and her parents' philosophy of love without labels, Rachel founded The Vida Consultancy (later to be known as Maclynn) in 2011. Its purpose was to offer a world-class matchmaking service focused on self-discovery and growth.

With a Master's in Occupational Psychology, her values of integrity, high standards, inclusion, and empowerment underpin Maclynn's unique matchmaking model. Clients describe her as calm, compassionate, warm, and wise.


Meet Maclynn's Matchmakers

Our driven and passionate matchmakers work with accomplished singles in the San Jose area. Specializing in a psychology-led methodology, they offer a tailored, personalized approach to finding love.

Rachel Maclynn

Rachel MacLynn

Founder & CEO

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Mia Wealthall

Global Operations Director

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Gina Yannotta

COO & Matchmaker

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Sarah Powell

Managing Partner

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Alex Warren


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Daniela Giralt

Assistant Matchmaker

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Annika Benn

Head of Partnerships

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Alexa Dalton

Operations Manager

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Tailored Matchmaking in San Jose

Our exclusive matchmakers prioritize meaningful matches in a world of superficial dating. Meet exceptional singles in San Jose and beyond.

Why Partner With Exclusive Matchmakers in San Jose?

At Maclynn, we are driven by strategy and success, as well as authenticity and empathy for our clients. Just as you strive for the best in your professional life, partnering with our specialist matchmakers will take your love life to the next level, maximizing your time in the San Jose dating scene.

Not only will exclusive matchmakers take the search for matches off your hands, allowing you to continue meeting professional and family commitments with no change, but our process will be carefully curated to align with your relationship goals. By meeting every suggested match in person, we ensure each introduction is vetted for long-term potential—a unique benefit which addresses the short-term connections rife in San Jose’s dating landscape.

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Success Stories

“They fell head over heels, have been introduced to each other’s families, and are still together to this day”

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Our Success With Accomplished Professionals

At Maclynn, we’re immersed in California’s dating landscape—from Los Angeles to Silicon Valley—and understand the challenges professionals face when dating. We’ve tailored our matchmaking services to the goals of high achievers, delivering to the highest standards and empowering our clients to date meaningfully and with purpose.

Our exclusive network and matchmaking expertise, combined with the relationship readiness and growth mindset of our clientele, has led to a success rate of 85% and success stories like Peter, an internationally-minded lawyer: “On his second introduction… I matched Peter with a gorgeous New Yorker. She is truly inspirational, warm… a successful writer, and can talk on all subjects. They are still together and he is very pleased it only took him 3 introductions to meet his ideal lovely lady.”

Time-Efficient Dating for Professionals in San Jose

Experience the difference that personalized, discreet matchmaking can make as a successful professional dating in San Jose. Our matchmakers offer a bespoke matchmaking strategy tailored to your unique goals and lifestyle, with exclusive introductions from our international dating network.

Inquire with us today to find out more. You’ll be directed to one of our team who will discuss why you’re looking for a matchmaker and how we might be able to help. We’re confident we can support you in your search for love in San Jose. All it takes is a conversation with our team.

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