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Blog: Matchmaker’s Comment

Taking a Break in Your Relationship

The Friends Reunion special re-ignited the discussion around whether Ross and Rachel were really on a break. The key scene famously ends with Rachel saying “maybe we should take a break”, and Ross storming out without commenting. A US therapist observed there was no proper conversation between the characters, which lead to assumptions.

Am You in a “Foster Relationship”? 3 Red Flags to Look Out For

There’s a new relationship term doing the rounds—and it’s been amazing just how many people have realized that it encapsulates their entire dating history.

Attachment Styles and First Date Observations

When going on a first date have you ever found yourself wondering - will this person be compatible with me? There are many factors that make up compatibility but one of the most determinant and often overlooked is one’s attachment style.

The Ex Temptation: Rekindling Old Flames

The tale of ex temptation, of how two romantic relationships can end and rekindle many years down the line. Sometimes the forgotten love can be re-sparked leading to a meaningful and long-lasting relationship.

When Your Partner’s Got It All: The Conundrum of Romantic Inferiority

Romantic inferiority is tough to navigate and may have different origins. But profound love requires sharing, autonomy, and perceived equality, regardless of the differences.

Is Unconscious Bias Holding You Back From Finding Love?

Is it possible that you are jumping to conclusions too quickly when meeting someone new? Could it be unconscious bias that is holding you back from finding love?

Emotional Intelligence Matters in Romantic Relationships

Being attractive, engaging, confident and funny can help us land the relationship opportunity, but unless we’re tuned into Emotional Intelligence it likely won’t stay the distance.

Love and Success: Can You Really Have It All?

Can you have your cake and eat it? I explore whether you can have both a successful career and a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship.

Single, but Unable to Mingle: Surviving Singledom During COVID

There are things you can do not just to pass the time, but to maintain meaning in your life, and stay on top of your game for when normal dating finally returns to the realm of possibility.

A Matchmaker’s Guide to Being Single on Valentine’s Day

So you’re alone on Valentine’s Day - so what? Just because you’re alone doesn’t mean you have to be lonely.

Intimacy in a Covid World

For singletons there's been a long stretch of time in which physical touch and intimacy has been off the cards. Are you asking yourself - when will you feel free to love freely again?

Is Dating Someone Who’s Never Been Married a Dealbreaker?

Singles often tell me that it’s a dealbreaker if someone of a certain age has never been married. It’s widely believed that this signals a lack of commitment or desire to be in a relationship.

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