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Situationships: Would You Even Know If You Were in One?

A situationship arises when the relationship between two people remains undefined, even though on paper they seem romantically interested.

Why Do Some Couples Get “Stuck” in Their Relationships?

Many of us have experienced that moment where we look back on a previous relationship, especially with the added benefit of hindsight, and think 'we should have broken up sooner'.

Am I in a Codependent Relationship?

To the uninitiated, the idea of a codependent relationship doesn’t sound so bad. Relying on each other is nice, right? Well, yes—but codependency is about much more than that. It’s about need.

The Gift of Giving Explored

As the festive season is upon us, just how important is gift giving? Celebrating seasons, religious and national holidays is part of the ritual of life. Does giving at these times feel like an obligation? Do you ever experience a sense of pressure about what is enough? Too much, too little, the right thing? Do we give because we’re reminded, or because we experience a sense of joy and well-being?

Slaying the Green-Eyed Monster: Is Your Jealousy Legit—Or Are You Overreacting?

Pretty much anyone who’s ever been in a relationship will have been jealous at one time or another. No one’s proud of it, sure—but we’re all human and it can be managed and even overcome.

Is Emotional Baggage Damaging Your Dating Prospects?

When a relationship comes to an end, the pain, isolation and hurt can be hard to bare. But there’s a silver lining, even if you can’t see it now: you will learn a huge amount about yourself during this turmoil.

Is There a Sixth Love Language?

Is there such a thing as a sixth love language? If there is, it’s probably not what you think.

15,000 Reasons to Stay or Break Up—But Two Stand Out Above the Rest

Have you had those moments where you've sat back to take stock and considered why are you in a relationship, rather than NOT in one? And what is it that keeps you together?

Back Burner Relationships: A Very Modern Dating Phenomenon

“Back burners” are those people we stay in touch with in the hope of someday pursuing a relationship, be that long-term or casual.

The Loneliness of Social Isolation: Why Romantic Connection is Essential

We all require different degrees of social interaction and connection. Some of us are social butterflies, flitting our way through the seas of people, finding pleasure in the wonderful opportunities presented by simply interacting with another person. While others find themselves exhausted by the waves of energy emitted by other people, wishing to remain in the comfort of their home exploring the world of their own mind. Still yet, there are the remaining individuals that fall somewhere in between, juggling their desire to interact with others and wanting to find solace in their solitude.

Are Your Self-Limiting Beliefs Hindering Your Dating Life?

Dating takes due diligence and often feels like a second job so why do we make it harder on your self with our self-limiting beliefs. Although it is not meant to be easy, there may be inward opportunities that can make the experience more seamless.

Taking a Break in Your Relationship

The Friends Reunion special re-ignited the discussion around whether Ross and Rachel were really on a break. The key scene famously ends with Rachel saying “maybe we should take a break”, and Ross storming out without commenting. A US therapist observed there was no proper conversation between the characters, which lead to assumptions.

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